A Path with a Heart
know of nothing more dreadful than living a life at the mercy of
powerful forces beyond my control.
As a whole, we are a
species futilely trying to insure ourselves against the unfortunate
events that inevitably befall our innocent selves. We live as
victims trying to fend off poverty, illness, unhappiness, and
discontent. We try to find causes for everything as to enable
us to create a system to defeat the
the system and still wind up saying "Why me,
how could this be happening?" How does one become a victim of
this cruel, harsh world? It's simple, one chooses it.
When one accepts responsibility for everything, they cannot, by
definition, be a victim anymore. Do not acknowledge any
outside forces and you become in control of your entire life.
Now in control, you can sit back and say "Who and where I am was
Now, it becomes interesting. One can now reflect
on one's life in terms of choices made, and motivation for making
- Why did I do what I did?
- Was it fear?
- Was it ignorance?
- Did I need the experience to
Was it just fun?
Behind every choice
there is a reason. Choice implies options. Options imply
control. "I control my life!" One can change one's mind
because one is in control.
In this one simple step, we can
remove blame for everything. Everything now has a reason.
"I chose it!"
When I wonder how I
wound up in a ridiculous circumstance, I now know. I chose it
and if I don't like it, I can make like a tree and leave.
In closing, I would
like to include an excerpt from "The Teachings of Don Juan".
Anything is one of a
million paths. Therefore, you must always keep in mind that a
path is only a path; if you feel you should not follow it, you must
not stay with it under any conditions.
Does this path have a
heart? If it does, the path is good; if it doesn't, it is of
One makes for a joyful
journey; as long as you follow it, you are one with it. The
other will make you curse your life. One makes you strong; the other